What is a side gay

Discover the rise of the "side" as an LGBTQ+ sexual role—challenging traditional top/bottom binaries. Plus, learn what it means to be one.

Sides are those who are neither. For several reasons, some people identify as gay and don’t enjoy anal sex. They are sexually attracted to men and enjoy making out with their partners. Still, they draw the line at anal penetration. Does the fact that sides don’t want anal penetration mean they aren’t really gay?.