Bend over gay

What bothers me about this use is that there is an automatic implication of less-than, and an insult by association of gay and bisexual men. Interesting note, there’s a military slang of BOHICA.
The term "Bend Over" is a slang term that refers to a sexual act where one partner bends over, exposing their buttocks, while the other partner performs anal sex on them. This term is often used in a derogatory manner and is considered highly offensive by many people.